Sunday, May 18, 2014

The Year 2014 ----- A look back at the last 5 months!

2014 started out rough. Between family fueds occuring and relationships breaking there have been many ups and downs. In February my husband and I found out we were expecting another bundle of joy (we already have a 6 year old gorgeous little girl together) and couldn't have been more excited. Unfortunately that excitment was cut short when we went to have our first ultrasound the first week of March. The ultrasound confirmed that we lost the baby at 8 weeks (the baby was supposed to be measuring almost 12 weeks). The doctor called it a missed miscarriage and while still struggling to deal with the loss I had to go through the miscarriage. This was one of the hardest things I have ever experienced. Along with that happening we received more bad news from family and it just seemd that 2014 was getting worse and worse. In April my husband let me know that he may have to get out of the Navy in October (he still had 2 years on his current enlistment) due to an error that was made 2 years prior. This is not something we had planned and added to everything that just seemed be hurling down on us. More bad news followed with family members going through rough times losing loved ones. At almost half way through the year I was losing hope that 2014 would ever turn around. Well, last week my husband came back with great news, ensuring that he still had at least another year in the Navy (possibly more) depending on specific results. This helped put our mind at ease and finally there seems to be a hint that the future is not as bleak as it has seemed. Nothing is set in stone yet but slowly things seem to be changing and turning around for the better. To be honest, if they got any worse we wouldn't be here anymore. 

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